North node in cancer - feelings demand attention

Jan 19 aft
Watch the video on the landed property. Slightly farther but love the landscape and security. It also got pool and park. My retirement place. For a moment mind said, can u afford to stay there, shouldn't this for investment.
Then I kept quiet and then remember my current place is for investment. I don't like condo. Besides I can afford to stay in it. My preference is for landed. Earlier took out landed cos security issue. But this one is gated and secured. Its outskirt. Besides I never like town and I don't go to mall. So perfect retirement.
Want to go tomorrow to buy it.
Father, looks like I planned out my next 30 years.


North node in cancer
In this lifetime, their feelings demand attention; they need to be around others who are sensitive and supportive. It is important for these natives to develop a technique for discriminating between those who care enough to be emotionally supportive of them and those who do not. The best technique is to honestly reveal how they feel when others take actions that affect them and see how the other person responds.

For example if one of the Cancer friend has a party and doesn't invite her, the best bet would be to tell the friend directly; "I felt left out when u didn't invite me to ur party."  No justification, no manipulation - simply an honest disclosure of her emotional response to the incident. If the friend says; "You shouldn't have felt left out - I invited u to three parties last year!  and invalidates her feelings, that gives her a clue that she is dealing with someone who does not really care about how she feels. 
On the other hand, if the friend says "I am sorry u feel that way, and I can understand it, but in this particular case ... ( and explains what happened) then Cancer North node knows this is a person who responds to her feelings.

Soul
Exactly why I dropped P.  I used to keep my feelings whenever she hurt me.
Last year I start to share my feelings and she brushed it off and even said something wrong with me instead. That's why I know she is not my close friend and I was not hers.
Now that I have detached I no longer seek her company.
The same goes for S. She too invalidates my feelings. I too detached from her.

North node in cancer
These folks tend to hide their feelings from others in intimate rships.  The irony is that this prevents them from developing the intimacy they seek and hinders them in establishing the interactions that would help them feel fulfilled.
Intimacy is a by-product of revealing personal feelings and having those feelings understood and accepted by another.
Feelings add fullness to life and it is the birthright of Cancer North node people to open themselves and experience the satisfaction of mutual caring on a deep, personal level.