Negative attachment is as much attachment as positive attachment

Jun 2

Osho
1. The issue
Ice-olation.
We are miserable because we are too much in the self. To be in the self, means to be apart, to be separate. To draw a boundary line around you. And it makes u frozen - u r no longer flowing.
All of us might feel that the only way to survive is to close off our feelings and emotions so we can't be hurt again. If our pain is particularly deep, we might even try to hide it from ourselves.

Soul
Father, try to pr isha but looks like it is difficult. And I tot if this is difficult, how can I pr myself in future. How can I tot of being a transformational leader.
Of cos, first response is to let go cos don't wan to feel rejected by the media. I guess this card ask me to continue.

2. Internal influence u r unable to see.
Flowering.
Your life should reach out to others. Your blissfulness, your benediction, your ecstasy should not be contained within you like a seed. It shld open like a flower and spread its fragrance to all and sundry - not only to friends but to strangers too.
Do not be concerend about whether they land on soil or on rocks. Just spread your joy.

Soul
Joy am spreading and I know its contagious. But how to spread isha. I guess this card ask me to preserve.

3. External influence of which u r aware
Ripeness.
You are ready to share ur inner riches, ur 'juice". Jus relax where u are and be willing for it to happen.
The sharing of urself comes in many areas.

4. What is needed for resolution?
The Source
Zen asks u to come out of the head and got to the basic source.
When we begin a creative project, it is this Source that we tune into. And we tap into it not by thinking and planning but by getting grounded, centred and silent enough to be in contact with the source.

Soul
Mmm. Just meditate n be watchful.

5. Resolution
Breakthrough.
Meditation will help u to go thru the chaos, through dark night of the soul. The dawn is not far away, but before u reach the dawn, the dark night has to be passed through. And as the dawn comes closer, the night becomes darker.

Soul
Jus ride it out.

Osho
It is really difficult to teach a friend, to be his teacher. It is difficult even to be an advisor to an intimate friend. If u try, he will say, "Shut up, don't show ur wisdom"

Soul
Tell me about it.

Osho
The reason we imitate others is that we don't want to take the trouble of understanding ourselves. It is convenient to live in somebody else's shadow and imitate him;it is a way to escape the ardous task of understanding ourselves.

Understanding begins when someone ceases to imitate others, to be like others, when he wants to know directly who he is and what he can be.
Persons like Krishna, Buddha and Christ, are the exquisite flowerings of individuality, they are not carbon copies of others.

Osho
Negative attachment is as much attachment as positive attachment.
Non attachment is altogether different; it is freedom from both the positive and the negative kinds of attchment. Non attachment means one is neither attached to something nor averse to it.
Non attachment is transcendence of both attachment and aversion.

A non attached mind, according to Krishna, is one who accepts everything unconditionally. The interesting thing is that if u accept something totally, it does not leave a mark, a scar on ur mind; ur mind remains unscathed and undisturbed.
But when u cling strongly to a thing, it leaves a mark on ur mind. And when u strongly averse to something, u detest and deny it, then also it leaves a mark on ur mind.

When u become like a mirror, reflecting everything that comes before it, then ur mind remain unscathed and unmarked.

Non attachment is our self-nature, we are born with it. So, it is strange that in life, we all become victims of attachment and aversion.

Soul
Yday when my ex-staff resigned as PA. I accepted it and didn't carried it forward. And mind didn't think of it.