Faith without work is dead...so go on to the next step

Dec 1 Afternoon
Tot of d con man, what I had was physical touch. No wonder I wasn't connected emotionally n alarm bell was ringing but unfortunately my mind was in control n bull doze.
Now I know why I was briefly smitten wit a fellow meditator cos we did quality time when we were volunteering.
Did check out healthy wise n wealthy. Montly sub is USD37. At first glance, I didn't like the website, too commercialised, too americanised. Anyway, nevermind there are million of channels.

The 5 love language
Why marry?
It is the desire to love and be loved that leads to individuals to enter into a convenant marriage relationship.
There must be a common foundation of the following in order to grow n unite.
1. Intellectual unity - read the same book n discuss its merit/concept to see if both on equal level.

2. Social unity - find n discuss potential problems. Write ur own personality n compare if this is how he see u.

3. Emotional unity.
Emotional intimacy is that deep sense of being connected to one another. It is feeling loved, respected and appreciated, while at the same time seeking to reciprocate.
To feel loved is to have the sense that the other person genuinely cares about ur well-being.
Respect has to do wit the feelin that ur potential spouse has positive regard for ur personhood, intellect, abilities and personality.
Appreciation is that inner sense that ur partner values ur contribution to the relationsjip.
Evidence of genuine love includes speaking each other's primary love language consistently.
Respect is acknowledgement of worthiness n room for each other the freedom to grow to be an individual.

4. Spiritual unity
Do ur hearts beat together spiritually?
Are u encouraging each other in spiritual growth?
Spiritual foundation is most important because they influence all other areas of life.

5. Physical unity.
Hav u done ur physical examination?
　
Evening
The secret of the ages.
Faith without works is dead, so go on to the next step.
Decide on the thing you want most from life. No matter what it may be.
There is no limit, you know, to Mind. Visualise this thing that u want.
See it, feel it. Believe in it. Make ur mental blueprint and begin to build.
The best time to make suggestion to ur subconscious mind is just before going to sleep, when the senses are quiet and the body is relaxed. Take ur desire n suggest it to ur subconacious.