North Node in 11th house - drama filled love affairs

Apr 19 aft 2
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North node in 11th house
Karma: Drama-filled love affairs
Soul mission: Friendship and equality

Step one: Appreciate your fifth house savvy
You have many past life experiences in having love affairs and you may have been a visible leader. You’ve also had many children.
The first step in claiming your North Node in the eleventh house is to embody the highest expression of the fifth house (opposite to the eleventh). The fifth house represents your karmic past. So definitely appreciate — but! Don't make fifth house issues the centre of your life.

So celebrate your joyful, sunny side, and your ability to create a love affair to remember. Enjoy your birth children if you have them, make others laugh, and be a child at heart. Rivet others with your passion and creative vision. Enjoy the limelight, and value the ease with which you express yourself.
Study the fifth house to understand its highest potential, and choose to live that, holding these life issues ever so lightly.
This is your first step to consciously attracting your soulmate.

Step two: Own your fifth house karma
Careful getting stuck in the drama of romance, demanding your children be a reflection of you, or only wanting things your way.
With a North Node in the eleventh house, your karma stems from making your own desires and pleasures and what you’ve created more important than anyone else’s. So challenges in romantic relationships, or with children (whom you may see as an expression of yourself) are common. Also taking risks that may not pay off.
In past lifetimes, you may have been a performer, a gambler or a child-like adult who refused to grow up. You may have been royalty indifferent to her people and tended by servants you treated poorly. You may have needed the limelight so much, you trampled others to get it or you might have been a risk-taker, who gambled away a fortune.
Have you created bosses or partners with a ‘king’ or ‘queen’ complex? Children who resist your attempts to guide them? Situations where you gambled – and lost? People who don’t treat you kindly? There’s your clue!

This shadow side of the 5th house has to do with romantic entanglements, and the pursuit of pleasure, at the expense of true friendship and equality.

Step three: Explore eleventh house life issues
Cherish your friendships. Use your creativity to invent something. Study science. Join a club. Marry your best friend.

North node in the eleventh house life issues include friendships, your relationship to groups who work toward a cause, and your hopes and dreams. It also has to do with your adopted (step, or foster) children, and receiving love in new ways.

No matter how foreign this sounds to you, these are the life issues to explore over the course of your lifetime. Questions on how to serve society as a whole are included here, through roles such as being a social activist, an intellectual, or a scientist whose passion is channeled for the greater good. Part of your life may be spent active in groups or connected with others who desire to bring about change.

In past fifth house focused lifetimes, you fully developed your ability to manifest your own creations. Your north node in the eleventh house asks you to take on the perspective of the common man, and channel your creativity into an ideal or invention that will benefit all. In this lifetime, you’re to stand for something that’s bigger than your personal desires and it is critical that you live and adopt true equality.

The internet is ruled by the 11th house, so more than any other sign, the internet might be a great way to attract your soulmate. Now if internet dating isn’t your thing, get online and join groups that mean something to you. Or do this in person if you prefer. It’s possible that your soulmate may be a friend first.

Something you should know. An eleventh house soul mission is often revealed through a painful blow to the ego around a love affair. If this happens, know that this was meant to open you up to a more rational view. By willingly seeking a relationship of equals, your love life will also bloom.

Finally, when it comes to a north node in the eleventh house and relationships, anything goes.
Open-marriages, swing lifestyles, together but not living together: it’s all good. So don’t stick to tradition – unless you want to. You can have any relationship structure you choose. Just make sure that both of you want it equally.

Embody the essence of your soul mission sign as you learn how to receive love in new ways: this is the key.

Soul
Yes..it was definitely blow to the ego around love affairs.
It has been big blow...the biggest was the con man...the one most hurtful was Z...
the one hurting too was Y...
It was because it was ego pain that I avoided.
Alas..can see that it was meant to be...