North Node or True Node - karmic direction

Apr 19 aft

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North Node (or True Node)

The true node, also known as the north node, is your karmic direction in this lifetime. Like a lighthouse, it points the way towards your destiny. When you reach for your dragon’s head, the universe supports you in fulfilling your soul’s purpose.  You can learn about the type of karma you are here to fulfill by looking at the sign of your north node.  The node will also occur in a house, which shows the area in which this karma will take place.

South Node
The south node is representative of the karma from your past lives, or perhaps your childhood. Put simply it reflects your past. In that sense, it can represent areas of comfort (to the extent that the familiar is always comfortable). However, when considered as the complement to the north node, it may have a somewhat negative connotation in that the native is encouraged to move away from the past, the comfortable, the familiar, towards the future. On the other hand, the south node can represent skills learned. The sign of the south node suggests how the past might be characterized in terms of experiences and feelings, while the house of the south node suggests the life areas in which the significant events took place.

Soul
I like how this is being written..more layman..whereas Jan Spiller more technical..

North node in 11th house
You incarnated this time to experience detached love.  You will find happiness in turning lovers into friends. 
Avoid the temptation of following every romantic opportunity, for this will distract you from your true path of creating a life purpose. 
You have a great need to be loved and seek to satiate that thirst with sex and romance. 
The north node in 11th house placement means that love affairs only weaken you while friendships make you stronger.

Soul
Well, I always knew that in romance..i become weak....but that weakness is also my strength.
Finally came to accept my aloneness path...