Saturday, April 4, 2015

Letting go is going with the flow

 Mar 22

Wish I read this 2 years ago...

http://consciouslifenews.com/6-wish-knew-before-first-relationship/1169987/
If you love something, if you love someone, and if you feel that you need to let go of them, if it’s required to let go, do it. It might hurt at first but once the pain is gone you will feel more alive than you have ever felt. You will start to see things from a totally different perspective and you will understand that letting go is a sign of strength, of courage and of great love.
You let go of someone not because you no longer care, not because you no longer need and want them in your life, but because you understand that they will be happier someplace else. You will be happy someplace else.
This is what true love is all about.

http://www.purposefairy.com/67487/how-to-let-go-of-people-who-no-longer-need-or-want-to-be-in-your-life/
Take your focus away from those things that cause you to feel pain, stress, anxiety, fear and unhappiness, on to those things that make your heart sing, on to those things that make you happy.
This too shall pass and the more you learn to enjoy your own company, the more comfortable you will be with this idea of letting go and all of a sudden life will become a lot easier.

“Be like the forces of nature: when it blows, there is only wind; when it rains, there is only rain; when the clouds pass, the sun shines through.” ~ Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

Let go and trust that maybe life has better plans for you. Go with the flow and not against it.
Why hold on to something good when life wants you to have something better?

Soul
Wish I read this earlier. But now reading it confirmed that I was right in letting go. I did went through the pain. It was a long pain cos I was afraid that it be worse without the pain.
Got a msg from his wife on Z. I didn't tell her that I was the one who prod Z to proceed. It not my place. I just need what I had to do. I m happy for both of them. They are meant to be together just as I meant to be alone.
Just as their path is to be in rship for their growth; my path is to be alone for my growth. So it's meant to be that not one rship works for me.
Been trying to arrange for a visit to Devi but twice cancelled. I didn't push it. I begun to just go with the flow. If it's not meant to happen this two months, it won't happen. So I let it be. Finally learning to go with the flow. Learning to trust the Universe.

I recalled Z lesson for me was to Go with the Flow..took me a few years..but alas I go with the Flow..

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