Clarity once projection is revealed

May 7

Soul
Now I know why S trigger both P and W's defense mechanism. Frankly both P and S are generally quite confident and hence for them to be triggered, there must be something above norm.

S has crossed the normal parameters and he does so becos he doesn't seem to have any. Can't blame him, he tot he was back in the past whereby the boss he reported to are all dumb and expect him to their thinking for them.

As for me, I was coloured by my past as I too faced similar situation as S and was projecting my past hurt. Its only when I was able to disidentify and know its not about me that things become clear and I become neutrel and is able to see P and W as per norm. And now I worked wit S closely, even he crossed my parameter. If he can crossed the parameter of his superior, what's more that of his peer. I also saw his writing, all words are not consistent and reflect an immature handwriting and a mind that is running wild. I have to draw the line and in anger told him to follow instruction. I asked him once I made a decision and he comes back to question it. If only 2 out of 10 times, he is right, would I be appreciative? He says nope and I be irritated with him.

Few minutes later, I step back cos I want him to continue thinking and says follow me when it comes to human resource. Follow me not becos I am his superior but becos I have better ideas.

Alas, I have most of the pix. Remember whenever we feel for situation not involving us, there must be some personal identification cos otherwise we be neutrel and can see it objectively.