Friend's sacrificial card

Aug 26 Even

Father, she was someone I trusted to be responsible and efficient and powerful. So, how can a cd courier be dragged for more than 4 mths, and that's after dragging the purchase for 1 month plus. She was the one insisted to purchase.
She now claimed that I am not understanding.

How can a 'wrong' be consider as right. I was already giving her ample breather.

Just now doing meditation, a tot came.
Jack of Heart - Sacrificial card. I used to think that they are so loving and can sacrifice so much for others. They have little parameters and allowed others to run over them.
Now I realised that the parameters works both way, they also run over others.
Its because she has no parameters and she expect that I will wait forever like she does.
Now I understand, this is not about me, this is her own parameters being set on me and I don't allow it as we have different parameters.

I may not sacrifice for others but I also don't want others to sacrifice for me. At the end, I expect a fair exchange. Amen.
Guess, this is just a bigger version of S's lack of parameters.