Love is freedom for yourself and others

Apr 14 aft

Got this from the blog on 27 Mar
Destiny, freedom and soul
Difference between egomania and self love.
With egomania, u will create more misery for urself. U will be more and more tense, u can't relax.
With self love, u will start to become more and more relaxed. A person who loves himself is totally relaxed.
To love somebody else creates a little tension because the other need not always in tune with u. He or she may have his own ideas. There is always a subtle struggle going on.
But when u love urself, there if nobody else.  There is no conflict - it is pure silence, it is tremendous delight. U are alone and nobody disturbs u. The other is not needed at all.
And to me, a person who had become capable of such deep love for himself becomes capable of loving others. If u cannot love urself, how can u love others? 

So if u r getting more and more miserable, then u are on the trip of being an egomaniac. If u are becoming more tranquil, silent, happy, together then u are another trip - the trip of self love.

Soul
Yes. I am definitely becoming more and more calmer.
While I am sad at the final closure..but a part of me can see the positive part.
Just need to cry tonight in the shower.
And I am glad I am able to inform P that I need a break. I will come back after Kailash.
I  can now express myself in personal relationship and need not worry that relationship will break.

Destiny, freedom and soul
If u are on ego trip, u will become destructive to others. If u are moving towards self-love, the ego will disappear. And when the ego disappears, u allow the other to be himself or herself, u give total freedom. Love is freedom - freedom for u and freedom for the object of ur love.

Soul
Yes....I am sad at the closure and need to cry to release sadness but I am happy for Y that he chose  happiness instead of ashram. His 52 days Uranus is in Ace of Hearts - new love relationship or birth of child. Definitely true. Wish to share with him...but now not the time. Let me heal myself.
Since I let him to be himself...the same I let me to take a break from local Isha. I am there just no longer want to be active.
Mmm..slowly but surely understanding Seven of Hearts..
Amen..
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