Osho - relating only out of meditation

Jun 13 aft
Life mysteries by Osho
Instead of thinking how to relate, fulfill the first requirement: meditate, be and then relating will arise out of its own accord. One becomes silent, blissful, one who starts having overflowing energies, become a flower, has to relate. It is not something that he has to learn how to do, it starts happening. He relates with people, he relates with animals, he relates with trees, he relates even with rocks.

Soul
Great. On right track.

Life Mysteries
Married and to be freed
A few basic truths have to be recognised:
One is that nobody is born for another.
The second is that nobody is here to fulfill ur ideals of how he should be.
The Third is that you are a master of ur own love and u can give as much as u want but u cannot demand love from another person, because nobody is a slave.
If these simple facts are understood, then it does not matter whether u are married or unmarried, u can be together - allowing space to each other, never interfering in each other's individuality.

The purpose of marriage is not to imprison u and bind u to each other; their purpose is to help u grow with each other. But growth needs freedom; and in the past all the cultures have forgotten that without freedom, love dies.

Freedom is an expression of love. Love and freedom goes together - you cannot choose one and leave the other.

The golden cage may be valuable to u; but it is not valuable to the bird. For the bird, to be free in the sky is the only valuable thing in life and the same thing is true about human beings.

Soul
Mmmm. Similar to the message I got this morning.


Eve

Was updating my blog and saw this

North node in Taurus
The validation they can count on consistently - appreciating themselves rather than for meeting someone else's needs. They need to establish ways of feeding themselves energy so that they become self-contained. Then they can interact with others because they want to, rather than out of neediness.

Soul
Yes, focus on being myself. Realising that only I can validate myself.
Then there is no more anger...at not getting...