INFJ's version of success

Dec 18 aft 2

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What does Success mean to an INFJ?
People with the INFJ personality type are intense and perfectionistic. They have deep insights into many aspects of life, and usually have very high standards for their own understanding and accomplishments, as well as those of others. They are service-oriented and empathetic to other individuals. The INFJ strives for the ideal in every aspect of their life. An INFJ's feeling of success is centered around their own level of understanding and accomplishment, their usefulness or service to others, and the condition of their personal relationships. The INFJ feels successful when they have used their very deep understanding of something to do a real service for someone. We often see INFJ personality types as counsellors and teachers, or in the medical and health fields.


Soul
Me from an Ace of Diamonds moving towards Queen of Diamonds.
Yes, I see my value from being useful to others.
Many years ago, I often leave jobs because I no longer feel 'useful when I have made all the improvement at work.
A few years ago after being Isha I no longer need to be useful at work...I  transfer my valuation to being a core lead in local Isha.
But it was not for me..but still I can't let go cos got no other valuation..in the end become resentful.
Alas, let go of the valuation from peer validation in local Isha.
So, here I am..with no valuation to anyone.


8. We only need one person

Because we are introverts, INFJs are completely content being with just one person, whether a partner, friend or family member. When we make friends, it is usually for the long haul and it takes a lot to destroy a relationship. Unlike extroverts or some other introverts, INFJs can spend the rest of our lives with only ever being close to one person and never feel as though we are missing out on other relationships. In fact, we actually prefer it.

When we have many relationships in our lives, we can become easily overwhelmed and feel as though we are not giving our best to each relationship, leading us to feel unhappy, exhausted, and stretched thin.


Soul
This is true. I have a few close friend and when I was with Z, I never 'look' at others.