Lovelanguage

Dec 12 eve
Did my test of the 5 lovelanguage test.


First heard of this from my ex-staff. She gave me the book for my birthday.

Your Scores of 5 lovelanguage
10    Physical Touch
8    Words of Affirmation
7    Quality Time
5    Acts of Service
0    Receiving Gifts

Physical Touch
A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, and thoughtful touches on the arm—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive. Appropriate and timely touches communicate warmth, safety, and love to you.

Words of Affirmation
Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important— hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten. You thrive on hearing kind and encouraging words that build you up.

Quality Time
In Quality Time, nothing says “I love you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful. Whether itʼs spending uninterrupted time talking with someone else or doing activities together, you deepen your connection with others through sharing time.

Soul
All true.
Now I know why I was so attached to Z's body experience.
Thats how I show my love..alas for Z's is gift.
But when he was with me, he was too poor to buy me anything.
And I was okay cos thats not how I receive love.
Guess thats why I stayed..I mistaken that his mode of lovelanguage is the same as mine.
And in the final breakup, he couldn't give me the quality time..thats when I exploded.
All the period of resentment comes up.
But no regret...we are not meant to be.