Oct 18 eve
Got this from Rebellesociety
6. Continue practicing small acts of courage in opening your heart.
To love again and open up again is a challenge after a heart-crushing breakup. When your heart has been ripped out and your broken relationship feels like shattered glass, it’s hard to trust again.
It’s hard to believe again. It’s hard to open up yourself again.
It can’t be done overnight but it can be done through small steps and over time.
It can start by saying “hello” to the next person who greets you.
It can mean returning a smile.
It can mean saying “yes” to coffee and not filling up your mind with dozens of reasons why coffee with this person is a bad idea.
It can mean saying “yes” to a blind date.
And it means saying “yes” to someone who wants to introduce you to someone who they think is a great match for you.
Take tiny steps of saying “yes” when your heart screams “no.”
You might believe that no amount of pleasure or happiness is worth the pain and suffering you’ve endured. You can’t afford the emotional, psychological, and mental games another ruined relationship is going to bring your way.
I get it. I’ve been there and wallowed in that place for a long time. Ultimately, I realized we have only two choices: be a prisoner of our heartbreak or break free and chose to re-write our story on love.
Love is possible if you make a choice to do the work to open up your heart again. You’ve come a long way. You’re more knowledgeable about yourself, smarter about relationships, more savvy about love, and better able to handle changes.
Your heart can break open into a satisfying and fulfilling relationship. Past darkness can open up to the most brilliant light.
Open your heart to the possibilities of new beginnings and more joy.
Soul
I m scared. Reading the Four of Spades and Four of Hearts in Mars, part of me anticipating but the other part try to shrug it off cos I have been disappointed for so long. Don't dare to venture again.
Today I was driving on the road and saw a couple, tot of Y and moments later my car lights shine on them and it truly was Y and his wife. He was placing his arm around his wife. They truly are right for each other. Can't say I wasn't envious but I wasn't sad either.
I just have to resigned myself to the fact that whatever will be will be. The path on Isha so smooth but the path on rship has been so rocky.
Body feeling ache. Right toes still bit painful. Hope new flip flop will lessen its pain.
Guess today home alone and hence feeling bit lonely.
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