Difference between a Virgo and Aries partnered with Cancer

Dec 31 aft

Y recommended me to Sarah Miller astrology. I told him I am not keen but he said no harm checking it out...

I checked the monthly horoscope and I didn't like it.

Just for fun, I checked our match.

I am Cancer, My Lover is Virgo
Refined, elegant Virgo is a superb communicator and fabulous conversationalist. Virgos make great writers; they are so precise about language. You may find yourself falling in love fairly soon, for Virgo is an earth sign and Cancer is water -- a fertile combo if there ever was one!

Astrologic textbooks like to make Virgos out to be dusty and dull because they have a shy or reserved quality. "Fine, underestimate me," Virgos say quietly to themselves. They like to take you by surprise with a torrent of passion on a dark, starry night. Make no mistake, Virgo can be a very skilled and ardent lover, especially when matched with an emotionally rich Cancer.

On a day-to-day, mundane level you also groove well. Virgos are practical, organized, and have the same security needs you do. They aren't nearly as moody as you are, thus provide strong grounding that withstands your ups and downs. You both are world-class worriers, so neither one will be able to calm the other down. Hopefully, you won't worry about the same thing at the same time! When upset, your upper stomach hurts, but Virgos' weak spot is the lower stomach. Neither of you can eat heavy foods and usually prefer light home cooking with plenty of vegetables.

Virgos are patient, even-tempered, and polite to a fault. They never squander money and they are exceptionally hard workers who always get ahead. Virgo is also ethical and can be counted on to do the right thing. That includes being faithful to you -- Virgos don't fool around.

With their sweet attentiveness, tender care, and lively wit, they will be a joy to be around! On this pairing I say yes, yes, yes!

Soul
Its true about the sweet attentiveness and tender care when he is messaging with me. The first time was when I faced my first public speaking. It went well,.but he so sweet and asked me how I feel inside...I thinks that when my feeling was stirred. I truly wish people asked me how I feel inside..cos there are two me. The outside me always seems okay but inside may not...

And he has lively wit..thats true..

Anyway,...let it be la. I don't know where we ends up.
But The Key and also this week cards say I just need to focus on the Journey,
And my issue is Control...I can't decide...if this is going to be another Seven...thats means it is destined for my growth...
I didn't seek him out and neither did he...our connection just happened to our surprise.


Suddenly tot of checking out my compatibilty with Z.

I am Cancer, My Lover is Aries
Sorry, but this tryst is going to be tough. You are the first water sign of the zodiac and therefore the most sensitive. Tenderness, care, warmth, and security are what you crave most; you bruise easily at the slightest criticism. Home and family are your biggest priorities, but, for your Aries lover, the creation of new enterprises gets top billing. Aries is the first of the fire signs, so Aries are noisy, brash, full of life and aggression, and not very tactful. If you argue with an Aries, he or she will do whatever it takes to win. If your feelings (and ego) are destroyed in the process, so be it. You will wind up feeling like you were hit by a heat-seeking missile. Aries can be ruthless and they frequently go overboard. To make matters worse, Cancers can hear insults when none have been spoken or intended.

There are more difficulties. You have delayed reactions, Cancer, while Aries are quick on the draw. You may not be able to parry and block during an argument as quickly as your Aries opponent, tearing down your self-esteem. Aries is nothing if not straightforward, but the Crab walks in a kind of zigzag pattern, prepared to quietly scuttle into and out of any subject. Aries find this deceptive and calculated. Cancers justify it by calling their actions subtle.

You want stability: in marriage, home life and children. But Aries need to keep their adrenaline pumping, and if romance doesn't stay hot, they are likely to look elsewhere for adventure. Sex is exciting with an Aries lover, especially in the beginning, but for Cancer this will not be enough. You want to be loved deeply for who you are and to forge an intimate bond that can't be harmed by the outside world. Self-absorbed Aries can't sit still long enough for this to happen. Soon you will feel that they are all fire but lacking in real warmth. Don't expect an Aries to nurture you -- they have better things to do. This will depress you, for you nurture everyone and expect the same in return.

You may stand a chance but you will need to work really hard on this relationship. If you don't want to pass up this creature, you might have your custom horoscope done and see if you have other compatible planets in common. We are only studying your Sun sign here, and there may be subtleties that your individual charts can reveal. 

Soul
Exactly, he was ruthless in his handling of our ending. He was ruthless in finding another gal as soon as we split. He was ruthless in marrying a gal that is within my circle. He was ruthless when he asked me to attend his wedding...he was ruthless thinking everything is okay ditto.
Thats why I don't want him as a friend..
But with Y...eventhough I know we will not be together...But he is for keep..
He is my spiritual friend..