Y's North node in my second house

Jan 4

We spent nearly 6 hours together. It could have even continue at the minimum another one hour if not because I got another appointment. And it's not tiring. Just spending time. 
I liked that he asked if I wanted snacks such as ice cream cone, corn or etc after our lunch. Since I said nope; he later cook some snacks for us. Nice touch and I feel pamper and enjoyed it so much with the mint tea.
He said he can see I m happy. Yes.

He shared his time here in this country; how he befriended his neighbour and then a client who is into night life. He asked whether I like the pubs. I said it was never my scene.

Was just sharing with Ye that Y was such a gentleman. Y said gentleman is good. Then I realised I was comparing with him those other guys especially my ex. They can't get their hands of me. Mmm, go with the flow.
Ye said Conversation is the thing that draws people together.  Mmm not sure if I heard correctly but when I asked Y what's make him happy, make him smile. He said my 'words' make him smile.

Father, we are truly compatible. Today he recommend me some investment. Remembering him as my Jupiter card, I followed through.

Cosmic Love by Jan Spiller
Y's north node in my Second house
In some ways, your values and sense of what is meaningful in life resonates with what is also inherently important to them. So when u independently assert an objective that expresses ur ideals, they support u instantly because it reflects their own values.

However, u cannot rely on their support unless u ask for it. Their job is to help u to become more assertive about getting ur physical and material  needs being met.
Eg, if u expect them to notice that u need help to unloading the car, they may let u down. However if u take the initiative and say : "Hey, will u please help me unload the car?" They will be happy to oblige.

Soul
True. They are oblivious.

Cosmic Love
In the process of bringing more prosperity into ur life and increasing ur self worth, this person inadvertently drains energy from the area of interdependency. They are here to help u strengthen ur ability to assert urself - to clearly define and state ur own personal boundaries and ur specific needs as they arise. They increase ur personal resources and strength at the expense of allowing u to rely on them in "bonded" relationship.
Key is to focus on my needs rather than their behavior.

Soul
No wonder my Pluto of Two of Hearts this year.
Looks like after Sg, I will need to assert myself and my boundaries.
He just told me today that I m rich to his standard.

My message to him;
Unexpectedly I am falling for you. I have been looking for a mate that on the same spiritual path. I find u so compatible with me despite our age difference.
So if you are not into me; best we chill out our interaction for some time so I can remove my feeling for u.

Cosmic Love
On a deeper level, taking charge and asking for help strengthens ur self reliance and increases ur sense of self worth.
When u take the initiative and express exactly what u need from them, they will carry it out brilliantly in a way that benefits both u both.
To bring out the best in them, stay away from their personal business and psychology and allow them to focus on ur need.

Soul
Guess this means focus on what I want instead of worrying whether he can fulfil.