Solar and Lunar in Opposites - learning from those I teach

24 Feb

Spiritual astrology by Jan Spiller
Solar and Lunar in opposites
You are learning from the people you teach. Your major avenue from growth evolves from the intensity of your relationship with those around you. As u work with others on a one to one basis, the people you support also provides the support you are seeking in your own life. Mutual growth occurs through this process of reciprocity.
The abstract goal of humankind are not your concern. Your challenge is in finding out how to relate to those around you in a way that produces harmony and justice for both parties.
Extending your identity to include others give you a greater sense of self-completion. The self, as developed in prior incarnations is now ready for another major growth step, and input from the energy of other people is necessary.
You are learning to accept the support and assistance of others in gaining awareness of what you need to complete your own development. This requires humility and grace because you must change personal patterns that separate  you from those around you and allow, even invite, them to facilitate in your growth process. As you become more open to this assistance, you find that the other person also gains self-awareness.
You are seeking the balance of self importance in this lifetime by recognising that all things are of equal importance.

Soul
Suddenly tot of my valuation issue. Just like work, I too have valuation for people.

Opposites between eclipses
You learn this by accepting responsibility for making yourself as complete as you possibly can while remembering that others are doing the same thing and are just as important as you are.
As you work on ego development and relate with others, you find that those around you remind you of your lesson by saying, "Hey, I m important too."  This brings u back to earth and helps you become aware of your flaws, for without this awareness you cannot grow. By relating with others, you become the best that u can possibly be. At the same time you gain awareness of the needs of others, which facilitates the social balance you are seeking.

Soul
True. When I was in my thirties, many issues. With the help from A Course In Miracles, I have changed. Then with 7thunders, I become aware of my life's lessons. But that was all in the mind. With Isha practices, I have bloomed and even able to transform my dislikes of Indian food, Indian place, vegetarian food, yoga and exercise, romantic relationship and now volunteering.
When we all shared our issues in volunteering, theirs are all valid reasons, mine is just selfish reason.
My feeling was similar to when I had to force myself to eat kanji during Samyama program. The second day as I was about to cry, I looked around and see that everyone is drinking the kanji, even the  other foreigners; what makes me thinks I m so special. It is just food that doesn't taste good to me. Why create such drama? In the end I drank it for the whole 7 days. But I admit I didn't drink any kanji during the Samyama refresher.

Opposites
You are also learning the value of diplomacy when expressing which leads to more mutually pleasant experiences.

Soul
Did this via ACIM.

The opposites
This is an equal-time issue; you are learning to share. In the process, you gain a sense of ease about life and an ability to enjoy others while pursuing your own goals.

Soul
Thanks for this message. Next lesson is volunteering.