Mahatria Ra - event is outside your control but experience is within ur control

May 9 eve
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Like the icons on a desktop, we hold icons for every person in our heads. Some icons represent good people, some wonderful, some not so good, some we cannot even stand. These icons serve as the spectacles through which we perceive people and accordingly interpret what they do and what they do not do. When she is a good person in our head, then even a wrong from her is nullified and accepted. When he is a bad person in our head, then even a right for him is negated and overlooked. Essentially, whether they are good or bad in our head is completely different from the actual. The person need not change; when the icon we hold for the person in our head changes, it changes the rship completely, positively or negatively.

Soul
A coincident - also on projection.
Now I know why teacher can't see N is doing major wrong. And why she see M always doing wrong.
I wonder how she sees me.
Father, In general I don't keep the past. I evaluate people on the present. I do that cos I know we only become 'bad' when we are unconsciously fearful.
There was no good or bad people. All are people to me. I normally tot I m the one at fault, in wrong.

Father, I just asked for postponement as my Top 5 is with family. Also now see that IE completes on 21 and so only one weekend rest before the event.

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Aldous Huxley.
Experience is not what happens to u. It is what u do with what happens to u.

Mahatria
What happens to us is an event. How we process, perceive and interpret that event becomes a different experience for different people, depending on how they process, perceive and interpret it.

What happens to u is not within ur control. But how u process what happens to u is completely in ur control. And on controlling that, u control ur whole life. So, if everything about ur life has to change, all u have to do is to change the icons u hold in ur head and control what u take in ur head.


Soul
This is what Sadhguru says by you can only experience anything within yourself. That is why experience is within our control