Upanishad - Pain is not due to the hurt, but due to our idea that we should not have hurt come to us

Oct 1 aft
Soul
I have asked how to ensure awareness and not lost in tots. Ur answer came, just connect up my inner self, you feel fulfilled and hence can't be distracted.

Just did my afternoon Shoonya, went in deep.

Adhyatma Upanishad - Osho
To lose oneself is a basic condition for meeting God. Relationships take place between two, but the relationship with God takes place only when there is one, not two.
Remember, what I am, how I am, where I am - my relationship can only be possible within those contexts. If I believe that I m the body, any relationship will happen with only those who also believe they are body. If I believe that I am the mind, my relationships will happen only with those who also believe they are the mind. If I believe I m consciousness, my relationships will only be possible with those who believe they are consciousness.

Soul
Yea. A few years ago I only looked for smart partner. Whereas Z look for tall partner, middle size body. Father, we are not alike.
He is into 'body' and I was into 'mind'.
Now that I know I m not the mind, I want someone that is on spiritual too.

Adhyatma Upanishad - Osho
Only when I become formless internally, will I be able to connect with the formless outside. There is no other way but to become like the one whom u are seeking.
The Upanishad expect u to become God yourself. They say that as long as u do not become God, ur destiny is not fulfilled.

Soul
Now, I can connect with Inner self.

Adhyatma Upanishad - Osho
We can drop ignorance only when we are wiling to disappear, ignorance cannot disappear; the duality will continue. Either both remain if both will go.

Soul
Difficult.

Adhyatma Upanishad - Osho
When I hurt my hand, the pain is not due to the hurt but due to my idea that the hurt should not have come to me.
If I accept that I should have been hurt, that the hurt was bound to happen, that to be hurt is one's destiny, then there would be no pain.
The pain is in the opposition, in non-acceptance. The pain is because we are not able to accept it.
Krishna accepts everything. And with acceptance, without doing a thing, ignorance becomes maya, Krishna becomes Brahman.

Soul
For the first time I can truly see why I need to be hurt. It is required so my bubble for partner is burst. So my search for outer partner stopped and alas I turn to my inward partner.
For the first time my feeling of acceptance is possible.

Adhyatma Upanishad - Osho
Mind never agrees to acceptance. Mind says, 'This should not be, this should be' - the mind just goes on chattering what should be, what should boy be. The mind goes on dividing.

There are only 2 paths; one path is to destroy both, the other path is to accept both. Liberation can comes on either path.

One path, u cease, ignorance cease
The second path is : agree, accept, drop the idea of going beyond what is - do not think of making even the slightest change in it as it is.