Confronting conflict with with family members

Sept 29

From Facebook Xin Ming
To be truly happy and contented, u must let go of the idea of what it meant to be happy or content.

Soul
That's exactly my tot yesterday when doing the walk. I was feeling good just walking alone in the park. What if I drop the idea that to be complete I need a partner in love. What if I don't need it?
My learning from Kailash: Whatever meant to be will be; whatever not meant to, no matter how I try will not be.

Yesterday another breakthrough. Woke up with money gone from my wallet in my room. My nephew was with sleeping by my side. When I woke up middle of sleep I saw him and my first tot was my money be stolen. True enough when I woke, my money was gone. At first didn't want to share but then told my sister and spiral into drama. Did inform my sister that I hope she won't make me feel bad for informing her son is stealing again.
Had Bhuta Shuddi review and didn't want to get distracted so I can't talk much to them. But did manage to tell my nephew that I think he is a thief.
My phone was dead and there was load of messages but I m afraid to read. Truly can see my fear in dealing with conflict in personal rship. Only dare to see the messages this morning. My sis messages were much better than I tot it would be. Amen.

Just tell my sister that I will help with her with nephew who has been habitually stealing for the past few years. When I send the message, tears fell.
As he gets older, he gets more daring and stealing bigger amount. We need to put a stop. Me addressing the conflict was the first step yesterday. Saying no to being stolen for so many times, facing my fear of my sister and brother in law's beating of my nephew, facing my nephew, calling him a thief. He needs to know it is not okay to steal.

Father, these few days is on handling conflict in personal rships.