It was a blessing that I was not married

Sept 29 morn 1

Just now was facing a recurring issue that hasn't been resolved by the boss. I can feel my frustration. Instead of judging them or taking it personally like they force me to act. I just recommend the action required and they are okay with it.
Instead of thinking they should solve the problem instead of me. That's empathy at work. That's how I m going with my personal.

Uranus in The 4th house
Habitual tendency - demanding independence by rebelling against close relationships.
Results - u may rebel for the sake of asserting a false sense of emotional freedom and self centered independence. This results in feeling instability about ur roots and constant disruption from loved ones.

Conscious expression
U know how to uniquely express ur individuality through ur talent to be sensitive to people's needs. U can be impersonally loving enough to allow those who are emotionally close to be free from any debilitating dependence. If u choose this road, the results is a sense of personal emotional freedom that allows u to be truly urself, even in close rships.


Soul
Yes, Seven of Hearts.
Now that I m aware of my INFJ personality and me taking my personal rships personally to the extent that I was suppressing myself to avoid conflict. Also causing me RA.
I now chose to be professional and objective in my personal rships.

Father, a tot came. I m so blessed not to be married. If I have been I would have been suppressing myself even more. I truly wasn't ready for any permanent intimate rship. It would have harm me. Make more joint pain.
Now I finally got it. No wonder Four of Diamonds today.

So glad I got this clear up.