My projections colours my perception on others

Sept 29 aft

Mystics musings by Sadhguru
Q: much of my anxiety I experience comes through my relationships. Isn't it reasonable to expect understanding from other people?

Sadhguru: You need only to understand the limitations and capabilities of these people and do what u can; only then will u have the power to move the situations the way u want it to go. If you are waiting for people to understand u and act, it is only a pipe dream; it's never going to happen.

The closer the relationship is, the more effort u should make to understand them. If you leave it to their understanding, it will become accidental. If they are very magnanimous, things will happen well for u; if not, the relationship will break up.

Soul
Mmm..just like this morning..instead of me hoping they understand their predicament. I just have to remember their limitation and take charge.
It is their limitation..it is not done to me personally.
They can't do it..doesn't mean they 'force' me to do it.

Oct 19
As I read this blog during the update, I suddenly realised that I get agitated because I tot others expect me to help them, not willing to think for themselves. Its like they are doing it to me. I am taking it personally.
In reality, when I viewed it objectively, is that they can't resolve it and hope others resolve for them. they are feeling helpless.
And if I can resolve it, just do it. But if I can't I need not feel bad as they are not enforcing it on me.