Facing my karma in relationship (4)

Jan 6

Father, love U.
I am so glad to have found U. I am now motivated to pursue my Destiny. Firstly, deal with issue of taking rejection personally. Secondly, realised that unfulfilment of low height is the same as high height.
Also tot of my unfulfilled desire for a partner.

Osho
In love u moved into other's being, u lost contact with urself and u will need to find urself again.

But when u r alone, u r again creating a need for love. Soon u will be so full that u would like to share, u will be so over-flowing that u would like somebody to pour urself into, to whom to give of urself. Love arises out of aloneness

Aloneness makes u overfull. Love receives ur gifts. Love empties u so that u become full again. Whenever u r emptied by love, aloneness is there to nourish u, to integrate u. And this is a rhythm.

Make ur partner also alert to the rhythm. Nobody can love 24 hours a day; rest period are needed. So, if u want to be alone, doesn't mean u don't love ur partner, vice versa; it is not rejection, don't have to feel hurt. And if u love ur partner, u will leave him alone.

If two persons are really respectful - and love is always respectful, it reveres the other; it is very worshipful, prayerful state, then slowly u will understand each other more and more. And u will become aware of the other's rhythm and ur rhythm. And soon u will find that out of love, out of respect, ur rhythms are coming closer and closer. When u feel loving, she feels loving. This settles. This settles on its own. It is a synchronicity.

Love gives freedom and love helps the other to be himself or herself. Love is a very paradoxical phenomenon. In one way, it makes u one soul in two bodies; in another way it gives u individuality, uniqueness.
It helps u drop ur small selves, but it also helps u to attain to the supreme self. Then there is no problem. Love and meditation are two wings and they balance each other. And between the two u grow.

Soul
I like that. Part of me used to be afraid of love cos afraid of losing my aloneness and rejection. U makes me understand both.
And to go there, I will work on Isha and my Destiny. Once I overcome that, the rship will automatically be fine.

Osho
Live each moment so totally, so fully aware, that u never repent later on that u didn't live, that u could have lived more, that u could have enjoyed more. That's what intelligence is; to live life so totally that there is no repentance. One is always contented. One knows that one has to lived to one's utmost.

Soul
Same msg with Sadhguru - involvement to reach highest desitny.