Our ego generally puts us down

Dec 12
Waking up with tot of d korean drama. A lady who was so put down by her Professor husband (studies financed by her) that she has to leave him and proceed for divorce application. She then got an opportunity to pursue her dream of becoming a singer. She was helped by a friend who become her producer. Throughout her journey, her husband keep on discouraging her, telling her that she must be insane if she think she can become a singer. She was discouraged, but when she recall the times her husband puts her down, When she actually become a singer, he told her that the entertainment industry is ruthless and she could just be a one-time hit.
The Producer finally confessed her love for her. Her husband, seeing her success and new found confidence wants her back. Still she is torn between

Within us, there is the husband (who always pull us down, telling us we shouldn't pursue our dreams, out of worry of failure, embarrassment), there is the "boss", who quietly sits behind waiting for us to finally pursue our dreams and the actively support us in its fulfillment. Bringing us up whenever we feel down, motivating us whenever we lack the confidence)