Thursday, June 27, 2013

North Node in 11th house (Aquarius) - afraid to tell due to hunger for aproval

Jun 25 aft
North node in 11th house (Aquarius)
They are learning that when they try to remind everyone else of their lines and expected behaviour, they forget to play their own authentic part. They need to stand back and observe others objectively. Over time, the other person's qualities will become clear. The native won't be disappointed because she is simply observing who the other person is without any expectations. Then she can tune in to how the other person's behaviour affects her. Rather than trying to change people, she can decide who she feels good spending time with.
A further advantage of this approach is that by allowing the other person to be himself, it gives her space to be herself as well.
Then, keeping her goal in her mind, she can spontaneously express her reactions in ways that are appropriate to the situation as it unfolds.

Soul
Father, amen.
I did forget my goal. It got mixed up with my Past script.

North node in 11th house (Aquarius)
These folks are so hungry for approval that its hard to let go; they may be willing to play any role necessary to win the approval and love they want.

But they won't have a good sense of what role to play (what is actually desired by the loved one) if they haven't objectively observed the other's fantasies.
Since they lack the objective perception to play the game well, its much better for them not to play at all. Instead, they need to relax, go with the flow, and tell the truth about who they are and how they feel as the situation unfolds. Then the other person will either resonate or not, so the romantic relationship can be based on the same honesty as a friendship.
The irony is that they are coming from a place of such goodness and love that when they allow others to see their inherent innocence by releasing willfulness and revealing their honest responses, the other person most often responds with love.

Soul
I don't dare to ask and don't dare to tell.
Yea, I have wilfulness.

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