Ekhart Tolle - Relationships are not here to make u happy or fulfilled

Aug 26 aft
Got my this week Osho but not sure of it.
My first tot was on the old one but then I dismissed it.
Now four hours later I want to interpret it positively instead of negative.
No more difficulty people. I attract only loving people. I want to be smart about it.

1. Issue
Completion
Completion of my Seven of Hearts. Ready for new beginning

2. Internal influence that u r unable to see
Lovers
When we mature we begin to experience love that exists beyond sexuality. This love is based on freedom, not expectations or needs.

Soul
I always wanted my partner that can grow and support me, Jupiter. I always believed we need not change. We complement.

3. External influence
The Fool
The numberless number where trust and innocence are the guides, not skepticism and past experience.

Soul
I believed I m beautiful and lovable. I have much to offer. What happened in the past is over. I want new love and I expect good love. No more individual drama.

4. What is needed
Thunderbolt
Inner earthquake is both necessary and tremendously important. If u allow it, u will emerge the wreckage stronger and more available for new experiences.

Soul
I changed my belief and expectation. Good love is possible for me.
I used all the tools available.
I open my door for new love.

5. The Understanding
Comparison
The way to find out who u are is not by comparing urself with others, but by looking to see whether you are fulfilling ur own potential in the best way u know how.

Soul
Yes. I am back.
(Aug 28 - I was just being grumpy. The real interpretation comes one day later)

Body
Today eat I piece of cheese sandwich. Couldn't eat second one. Father, I have started to lose emotional content over food.

Today read about the weights. A will lend me his. I m interested cos I truly want to reduce arm. It is said my arm reflect love issue. Well, its gone. I expect good love. Reading about the orgasm made me tot of the past. But I capped it and said knowledge for future with new partner. Father, I will handle this.


Now updating my blog and saw this, similar msg with the Internal Influence Lover card:

The Power of Now
As you may have noticed, relationship are not here to make you happy or fulfilled. If you continue to pursue the goal of salvation through a relationship, you will be disillusioned again and again.
But if you accept that the relationship is here to make you conscious instead of happy, then the relationship will offer you salvation, and you will be aligning urself with the higher consciousness that wants to be born into the world.
Judgement is either to confuse someone unconscious behaviour with who they are or to project your own unconsciousness onto another person and mistake that for who they are.
When the pain-body has been transmuted and you are no longer identified with mind and mental positions, and if your partner has done the same, you will experience the bliss of the flowering of relationship.
Instead of mirroring to each other your pain and unconsciousness, instead of satisfying your mutual addictive needs, you will reflect back to each other the love that you feel deep within, the love that comes with the realisation or your oneness with all that is.
This is the love that has no opposite.

Soul
Now I can see that the 'judgement' is both positive and negative. If I see too positive or too negative, it is actually my projection.
Good love...

Just updated my blog. Feeling better now. Amen