Forgiveness is to offer no resistance to life - allow life to flow

Aug 24 aft
Father, now reviewing the abridged book and saw this.

The power of Now
Forgiveness is to offer no resistance to life - to allow life to live through you. The alternatives is pain and suffering, a greatly restricted flow of life energy and in many cases, physical disease.
The moment you truly forgive, you have reclaimed your power from the mind.

Soul
I think yesterday me suddenly thanking all the people in my past, people who greatly affected me, either positively or negatively means Forgiveness
Father, I have tot of asking L to go into A Course in Miracles, but perhaps I too should be reading it.
Suddenly I can see that Forgiveness is the tool to allow life to live through us.


The Power of Now
Every portal is a portal of death, the death of the false self. When you go through it, you cease to derive your identity from your psychological, mind-made form.
You then realise that death is an illusion, jus as your identification with form was an illusion. The end of illusion - that's all that death is. It is painful only as long as you cling to illusion.

The Power of Now
Question; Surely love must also be one of those portals?

Answer: No, it isn't. As soon as one of the portals is open, love is present as the "feeling-realisation" of oneness.
Love isn't a portal; Its what come through the portal into the world.
As long as you are trapped in your form identity, there can be no love
Your task is not to search for love, but to find a portal through which love can enter.

Soul
This is similar message to Osho about we just need to create inner space for love.

The Power of Now
Intimate relationship do not cause pain and unhappiness. They bring out the pain and unhappiness that is already in you. Every addiction does that. Every addiction reaches a point where it does not work for you anymore, and then you feel the pain more intensely.
Avoidance of relationships in an attempt to avoid pain is not the answer either. The pain is there anyway.
Three failed relationships in as many years are more likely to force you into awakening than 3 years on a desert island or shut away in your room.
But if you could bring intense presence into your aloneness, that would work for you too.


Soul
A good reminder not to close up the door.


The Power of Now
As you may have noticed, relationship are not here to make you happy or fulfilled. If you continue to pursue the goal of salvation through a relationship, you will be disillusioned again and again.
But if you accept that the relationship is here to make you conscious instead of happy, then the relationship will offer you salvation, and you will be aligning urself with the higher consciousness that wants to be born into the world.
Judgement is either to confuse someone unconscious behaviour with who they are or to project your own unconsciousness onto another person and mistake that for who they are.
When the pain-body has been transmuted and you are no longer identified with mind and mental positions, and if your partner has done the same, you will experience the bliss of the flowering of relationship.
Instead of mirroring to each other your pain and unconsciousness, instead of satisfying your mutual addictive needs, you will reflect back to each other the love that you feel deep within, the love that comes with the realisation or your oneness with all that is.
This is the love that has no opposite.

Soul
I have opened up and went in deep into myself.
The Outsider Card is finally gone and lifetime challenge Seven of Heart dissovled.
The next one is good love.

The Power of Now
It is perfectly possible for an enlightened person, if the need for the male or female polarity is not met, to feel a sense of lack or incompleteness on the outer level of his or her being, yet at the same time be totally complete, fulfilled and at peace within.

Soul
Yea..I feel at peace, fulfilled within.
But there is a also a sense of lack in the outer level.
When I am in my practices, when I am walking, when I am swimming. I am one.

I am now trying to do an abridged of the Power of Now. Truly difficult cos there is so much to share.