Doing time or doing life?

Sept 13 Aft
Father, I love U.

Staying OK
Staying OK means taking charge of ur life, and taking charge of ur life means taking charge of ur time.
Most of us, until we feel that tight turn of the screw called the midlife crisis, don't pay much attention to time, for our illusion is we will live forever.

William Sloane Coffin said, "There are 2 ways to be rich; one is to have a lot of money, the other is to have few needs".

Most of us does not know how to use time deliberately. In our early years, most of our times were structured for us by parents, teachers, professors, job-placement bureaus, bosses, spouses, then children. Not many people make a want list early in life and set about making their dreams come true. Most of us are far down the path before we stop and smell the roses.

Will u do time or do life? The answer depends on whether or not u own ur life, treasure it and plan its use.


Soul
Father, I am stopping now.
Now I know why King of Spades in Ruling - Long Range

King of Spades (Mastery over one's environment and one's self)
This is likely to be a hallmark year for you, one in which u can accomplish most anything u set ur mind to. It is highly recommended that u set high goals for urself this year to take advantage of this once, or at most twice, in a lifetime influence

The King of Spades is considered the most powerful card in the deck as far as material mastery and accomplishment is concerned. All legal and work matters should go ur way and u can proceed with confidence in any direction u choose.

To get the most from this influence, find an area where u can take responsibility, and assume the role of leader in some way. The sky is the limit. U can master new or existing situations, given the highest gift of mastery possible. Use it wisely.

It should be mentioned here that the power and success indicated by this card will only manifest itself to those who are ready and willing to also assume the responsibility that is implied here. For eg, u would have to be a leader of some sort or have ur own business to get the most of out of this powerful card.

Yea, just focus on my dream.
I have acted on Z, my 3 days work and next will be writing.

Staying OK
The best model for time-structuring is ur heart. The heart works one-third of the time and rests two-thirds. Faithfully it does its unerring job from birth until our final day.

Were we to follow our hearts, we would divide 24 hours into 3 segments
1. Working 8 hours
2. Sleeping 8 hours
3. 8 hours for life-renewing activities.

What a revolutionary change would come over us individually and as a society if we followed our hearts.

Soul
This is so great. Father, thank u so much. I am embarking on such self time that involves my meditation, writing, swimming and hata yoga and just drinking coffee.

Staying OK
Taking charge of our time involves decisions. Even if we are living with impossible pressures based on past decisions not well thought out, we still have options.
If we think we don't, we must make them, for the alternative may kill us.
The Latin word for anguish, which certainly attends severe time pressure is angustia, meaning narrowness or tightness. Sometimes our narrowness is the real crowding of demands upon us, but sometimes is narrowness of thinking.
One way we can gain time is to eliminate time waster, those things we do that produce no enjoyment, only worry.

Time waster
1. Things
2. Confusion in our mind, indecisions
3. U can't say No
4. U don't know how to interrupt. U too polite.
5. Dulling sensation - alcohol
6. Television
7. Use prime time for second rate tasks
8. Untimeliness
9. A perfectly clean house
10. Worrying about aging.
11. Staying up late