Staying OK

Sept 12 Aft

Father, I really can see Sl. I know she is fearing of uncertainty. She is good in her job but her fear of uncertainty makes her communication quite bad. Instead of seeking information, she would say bad things to make people feel guilty. Anyway, I had enough and hang up.

(Sep 29 - Later that day she called me and told me that she was feeling angry with her ex-boss and took it out on me.)

Staying OK
Persecutor - Victim - Rescuer ; a destructive game.
Happiness is a form of courage - Holbrook Jackson.

However, courage must be accompanies by rethinking early childhood decisions about how one reacts to persecution. A child cannot leave mother. A grownup can.

The art of saying no, the "I m OK - U r OK" way is to do everything possible to avoid hurting the Child in another person at the same time u r looking after urs.