Settling down on Z (3)

Oct 10
Father, suria was effortless. Practice was fine. I didn't doze.

South Node in Scorpio
They have the ability to "tune in" to the hidden tots of others. When they stand near someone, if they open up to receive that person's energy, they will know his or her character and motives.

When they misjudge someone's character, its because they are projecting their own values on the other person.

However, they r never fooled when they genuinely "tune in" and trust what they sense about the other person.

Soul
True, 80% of the time I can perceive a person character. The few time I am out is on St, my staff and of cos, on Z when I tot he wanted a committed rship with me.

South Node in Scorpio
They need to let the other person tell them what will ease his or her inner conflict and answer his or her needs. They will know if they are "on track" by the other person's response: Others will enthusiastically validate their support when it has really been helpful.

Soul
I am learning.

South Node in Scorpio
Anxiety - when they feel anxious, they may be reluctant to reveal their true feelings. They don't want to get into a conflict, so they bury their emotions and communications stop. Instead, they are learning to move past the block by discussing it with the other person. They need to risk a confrontation - by being willing to be uncomfortable for the sake of forming a closer bond through honest communication. This is how to build a relationship with the other person, rather than trying to do the whole thing on their own.

Soul
True. I am learning. I did risk confrontation by telling Z that I am settling down. Since we have different goal, I need to be out. I even declare my love for him. He said we will discuss in our meetup. When I broached the subject, he want to avoid it. And instead sending me the msg that he wanted to deepen our rship and not ending it by asking me out for lunches, hugging me continuously and told me we r now vibrating at a different level. He also focused on bonding with me.

South Node in Scorpio
A soul mate relationship is really a combining - on an energetic level - with someone whom they have the right "chemistry"; who gives them a sense of excitement. As they empower their partner, the partner responds by validating and taking care of them. The mutual energy revitalises those parts of the SN person that become stagnant during past incarnation.

If they focus on "my values vs ur values," they will lose. But if they are clear about the higher goal they want to experience with the other person and that's agreed on, then these folks are willing to adjust their methodology to work with the other person and gain the experience. If they are really open to the other person's sharing, they will be able to feel energised. These may be values that SN have not even tot about - the next step on their path.

Soul
Well, children is something I have never tot about. My tot has always been avoidance cos I don't want to pay the price.

SN in Scorpio
If they tune in to the psychic energies of their partner (that is, consciously appreciate the resources and energy of their partner), then when they combine sexually, the experience far exceeds anything they could have imagined. They have latent talents on this and through the openness to their partner's energies, they can share an enjoyment beyond sensual pleasure, expanding into the dimension of spiritual alchemy and empowerment.

Soul
Like Z said once we pass through the friction stage, things happen on its own. I didn't listen and stop it cos my focus on the physical pleasure and not on bonding.
And amazingly it is stated that Z is here in my life to teach me about true bonding through sex.