Cosmic Reward (30) - abandonment no longer rules me

Apr 29 Eve

My lover, myself
If both partners remember and share their stories, there is room for magic, because the deep knowing and acceptance of one another's Personal Myths is the door to self-love. The beauty of relationship, and especially sexual relationship, is that it can lead us back to the paradise of childhood purity, and also force us to confront old patterns and wounds that originated then and are causing each of us to behave in ways that bring about conflict in the rship now.

Soul
We have both shared our fantasy, our depression, our childhood. That's where the intimacy is. Actually to him, he just wanted to break down all my doors.

(May 25 - It is really true. When I experienced my first orgasm with him, I exploded into joy of uncontrollable laughter.)

My lover, myself
Once we give ourselves the love we deserve, our partners are also able to give more.
The fact is that we must each go back and do our own "work", using the mirror our partner offers us as a guide, but not expecting the other to make things right for us.
Unfortunately, most of think otherwise, when the other fail to heal u, u feel let down and polarised from ur spouse. Desire diminishes and the two of u r left separate and alone.

Bob
I spent a lot of time really coming to know myself before I even thought about another woman. This time I wanted someone I could share both ideas and feelings with.

The anonymous and purposeful energy of the Gender Myth alone is not enough to sustain a love relationship. Until partners can share both gender and emotional conversation arising from the Personal Myth, they don't yet have the elements for building, sustaining or rebuilding desire.

While most attraction begin in the Gender and/or Sexual Fantasy realms, if our rships are to last and deepen, they must include deep, intimate conversation. In actual fact, most couples don't really acquire the ability to have this conversation until its lack has caused a gradual loss of desire.